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2002-12-26 - 9:34 p.m. This is a conversation I had with the insurance guy long ago. It was before I think he thought I was a possiblity. When I read this my heart sort of aches cause I keep thinking....I like this guy and we are discussing dating other people. We are discussing this because we are friends....friends who fuck....now usually that works for me but as we all know women get attached. There some weird chemical in our brain that goes wacky when we sleep with someone. They get into our hearts that way and stay there. I have to say I feel somewhat of an emotional attachment to everyone I have sex with. Some more than others but I still seem to be able to be friends with people when the sex stops..... I also look at this converstation and realize what a selfish person insurance guy can be....and what a fool I am. interested_5000: hey there....you would have gotten a big laugh out of me tonight......ha mediamaven: why mediamaven: what up interested_5000: lol....what up? interested_5000: jk mediamaven :well with you know what know what's up interested_5000 : ok ok interested_5000: any way mediamaven : yes interested_5000: i made a bit of a fool out of myself tonight:o) mediamaven : k mediamaven : did you ask the hairdresser out interested_5000; asked the haircutter gal out... interested_5000 : and recieved a definite NO mediamaven : oh mediamaven : sorry mediamaven : that must smart interested_5000: so needless to say i was a tad embarassed mediamaven : wow did you just walk in there and do it interested_5000 : but we all need a little humility now and again...lol mediamaven : do you know her name mediamaven : now at least interested_5000 : yeah...well i called earlier to ask what her name was and when she would be working....so i went in and purchased some hair crap....talked to her quick.....and found a polite way to bring it up interested_5000 : then WHAMO interested_5000 : no interested_5000 : no interested_5000 : no interested_5000 (09:10:25 PM): lol mediamaven : what does this chick look like? mediamaven : just curious interested_5000 : says she has aboyfriend mediamaven : well why wouldn't she?? interested_5000 : yeah yeah yeah mediamaven : i mean for god's sake if i wanted a boyfriend tomorrow...i'd have one too interested_5000 : well.....women just have it easy that way i guess mediamaven : yes we do mediamaven : but certain aspects of being female suck interested_5000 : well..maybe mediamaven : ummm no maybes about it interested_5000 : lol..ok mediamaven : low pay, childbirth, men hitting on us all the time interested_5000 : so anyway.....i think the group had a good chuckle later on i think mediamaven : the inability to disconnect our emotions from our wallets interested_5000 : LOL mediamaven : so you need to find somewhere else to get hair cut mediamaven : what did she look like interested_5000 : yeah maybe interested_5000 : um....she is about 5-5 interested_5000 : blond hair interested_5000: (shortish blnd) interested_5000: green eyes i think interested_5000 : slender interested_5000 : long legs interested_5000 : just plain cute mediamaven : ok so you didn't ask out goth girl mediamaven : i was wondering about that interested_5000 : goth girl?? interested_5000 : who is that? mediamaven : yeah there is a goth kinda girl that cuts hair interested_5000 : oh...hmmm mediamaven : she cuts bryan's hair interested_5000 : im not sure who that would be interested_5000 : there are a couple of weirdos in there mediamaven : she is cute very petite..but dyed hair...weird choppy cut interested_5000 : you mean goth girl? Mediamaven: yeah interested_5000 : oh mediamaven : sorry about that interested_5000 : now i remember why i hate asking women out mediamaven : you have to think about it more like work mediamaven : don't take the rejection so hard interested_5000 : yeah yeah interested_5000 : no at work doesnt bother me interested_5000 : this fucking fyl!!!! interested_5000 : fly interested_5000 : so...i am having a fuel pump put on tomorrow mediamaven : on your car interested_5000: no....near my ass......lol interested_5000 : yes...car mediamaven : yeah yeah mediamaven: sorry interested_5000 : hehe mediamaven : fuck why am i sorry interested_5000 : couldnt pass it up interested_5000 : good question interested_5000 : hey...enough about me.......hows the house thing mediamaven : umm mediamaven : again mediamaven : i don't want to jinx this mediamaven : i am so close interested_5000 : <~~~~~very happy for you mediamaven: but i almost passed out today mediamaven: for real interested_5000: yikes! mediamaven: yes interested_5000 : why? mediamaven: cause i'm weird interested_5000 : oh..that explains it mediamaven: stuff like this makes me girly interested_5000 : ic mediamaven : well weird doesn't really provide an explanation for most of my behavior interested_5000 : allrighty mediamaven: it might describe it at times mediamaven: be mean mediamaven : go fo the kill interested_5000 : ok..so if we cant talk about house...what do we talk about interested_5000 : ? mediamaven : long term care insurance mediamaven: i don't know mediamaven : i need to find some appliances mediamaven : i need to grow up interested_5000 : i hear they have them at appliance stores mediamaven : yeah well i can't afford new mediamaven: so used it will be mediamaven: for now mediamaven: i will need all my money for my down payment interested_5000 : ahhh mediamaven : so am i boring you interested_5000: lol.....why? mediamaven: just wondering interested_5000 : ok mediamaven : okay so how would you feel about this interested_5000 : what? mediamaven: here's my dating dilema mediamaven: for the week interested_5000 : k mediamaven : ag teacher from northeast who i have worked with on numerous things mediamaven : nice enough mediamaven : older interested_5000 : yeah ....and?? mediamaven : well he asked me out to dinner interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : i mean i get this all the time mediamaven : but mostly from construction guys at school interested_5000 : ok...so why would you consider him above ther est? mediamaven : cause he has a brain interested_5000 : well....that is a great thing to look for interested_5000 : you say he is nice? mediamaven : he is fairly nice in a work setting interested_5000 : so why not let him take you out for a nice dinner and see how he is otherwise? mediamaven: but you know me.....i run from the nice eligible men interested_5000 : oh...ic interested_5000 : maybe you should give a chance interested_5000: him a chance* mediamaven : why interested_5000 :: well.... interested_5000 : why not? interested_5000 : would you tell me his name if i asked? mediamaven : why interested_5000 : i might know him mediamaven : i bet you do interested_5000 : be able to give some advice mediamaven : but he also seems to date women way younger than him mediamaven : and very inappropriate interested_5000 : and what is wrong with that.....hell interested_5000 : oh ic interested_5000 : how old is he? mediamaven : dating students not good mediamaven : i may joke at times about it mediamaven : but i am never serious about it mediamaven : i think he is in his forties mediamaven: he looks fortyish interested_5000 : well if you were to date him....nothing wrong with that mediamaven : i don't know i never scooped him out as having dating potential interested_5000 : so tell me who he is mediamaven : he is an old guy in a tie to me interested_5000 : hehehe mediamaven : so this means he will probably get the same treatment you got tonight mediamaven : from me interested_5000 geez....dont do that mediamaven : done it before interested_5000 : meany interested_5000 : well....you must like a little bit to be considering it mediamaven : i've thought about it a little cause i need to grow up interested_5000 : well....see interested_5000 : eh.....give him a courtesy date mediamaven : that would really sort of suck though for him mediamaven : i know this interested_5000 er....how? interested_5000 : hell I�d would have liked the courtesy date interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : there was a guy i went out on a date with right after i think i met you interested_5000 : much better than buying useless hair crap interested_5000 : and? mediamaven : he kept calling to ask me why i didn't want to go out again mediamaven : and calling mediamaven : and calling interested_5000 : oh...well......i dunn[ interested_5000 : o* interested_5000 : explain you have a diff phone # interested_5000 : how many times has the new guy called? mediamaven : the new guy mediamaven : for a date interested_5000 : yeah mediamaven : never interested_5000 : wtf? mediamaven: he just asked me in person interested_5000: oh....ok ok mediamaven : he doesn't know phone number interested_5000 : and what did you say???? Mediamaven : ahhh interested_5000 : is that it? interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : no mediamaven : i didn't say that interested_5000 : did you have tounge out? mediamaven : no interested_5000 : lol...jk mediamaven : it's work mediamaven at work mediamaven : i'm not all tricked out in my causal sportswear interested_5000 : lol......ok....so what interested_5000: did interested_5000 : you interested_5000: say mediamaven : i said well i'm going to busy interested_5000 : oh interested_5000 : hmmmmmmmmmm mediamaven : who do you know that works at there? interested_5000 : hey.......you got me to get the nerve up to make an ass of myself...LOL...so hell give it a try interested_5000 : i cant think of anyone in particular mediamaven : my problem is this is not me expressing interest in someone mediamaven : this is me trying to figure out what to do here so he doens't feel like shit like you did interested_5000 : OH interested_5000 : ok mediamaven : if i like someone interested_5000 : so you dont want to go out with him....is that it? Mediamaven : although my first impluse is to run far far away Mediamaven : i will usually just go do something with them and see how it goes Mediamaven : never a prob interested_5000 : ahhhh...i c mediamaven : this.....there are many issues at stake here mediamaven : i must continue to work with this person interested_5000 : understand mediamaven : i mean you can find someone else to cut hair interested_5000 : true mediamaven : and you can ask other women out interested_5000 : maybe mediamaven : do you see what i'm getting at mediamaven : i hate to hurt someone's feelings interested_5000 : yes i do interested_5000 : and it is very considerate of you mediamaven : well i try to be considerate interested_5000 ok....so maybe i dont have the best advise for youi mediamaven : it's okay mediamaven : my advice to you obviously was bad mediamaven : cause it didn;t work interested_5000 : so you should just tell me who it is...lol interested_5000 : nah.....you gave great advice.... mediamaven: i mean my friends ken and brad interested_5000 : actually it worked just fine.....till she said she had a boyfriend mediamaven : now succesful daters to some extent mediamaven : brad getting married interested_5000 : brb...nic fit mediamaven: ken attempting to date way out of his leauge and succeeding at some level interested_5000 : lol interested_5000 : brb mediamaven : k interested_5000:here is a tough question interested_5000: how do you know what your leauge is? Mediamaven : well that can be tough mediamaven: for ken i said that cause he is so shy mediamaven : and he lives with parents interested_5000 : ok interested_5000 : and? Mediamaven : hasn't dated in years cause some women fucked him over interested_5000 : ahhh mediamaven : so he is in tough shape interested_5000 : ok...so back to my point....how do you determine your leauge? mediamaven f i were a guy i would never think anyone was out of my league interested_5000 : oh really? interested_5000 hmmmmm mediamaven : no mediamaven : i don't even think of anyone that way anymore mediamaven : cause everybody has their thing interested_5000 : i think that might be my prob mediamaven : i mean i am not gonna appeal to some guy who wants someone who's ninety pounds and quiet mediamaven : but i have a feeling that i am not gonna be attracted to someone like that to begin with interested_5000 : hmmmm mediamaven : i think women have a more realistic view of attraction mediamaven : cause we factor in stuff like sense of humor, if they seem polite mediamaven : we are less visual interested_5000 : hmmmm......i may not entirely agree mediamaven : less driven by the aesthetic stuff interested_5000 : but i have heard it before.....so maybe some truth mediamaven : 21 year old girls are gonna want a hunky guy with cash interested_5000 : lol...im out mediamaven : i mean i had that in my twenties mediamaven : i don't have all this figured out mediamaven : i do know that men who are able to get what they want mediamaven : know what they want mediamaven : and the smart ones have realistic expectations of what is available interested_5000 : well.....someday i may figure this out mediamaven : if you do let me know interested_5000 : timing i think is key interested_5000 : it all has to do with timing mediamaven: how so interested_5000 : hair gal may ahve said yes.....if bf just dumped her mediamaven : oh that's fate mediamaven : not timing interested_5000 : no such thing interested_5000 : fate=fantasy mediamaven : nah interested_5000 : yah interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : things happen for a reason interested_5000 : well....i think we tell ourselves that.....but really....we are in control of our own fate mediamaven : true interested_5000 : if i wait around for something to happen...hoping that fate will do its thing....it aint ever gonna happen mediamaven : but every once in awhile something comes up that we didn't intend or orchestrate mediamaven : happens mediamaven: i don't depend on that interested_5000 : again......timing interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : but god takes care of me mediamaven : i know it mediamaven : i need to help myself interested_5000 : geez....im gonna start breakin things to kill this fucking fly interested_5000: sorry mediamaven : you're just mad about hair dresser girl interested_5000 : well..maybe.....but i am very pissed at this fly mediamaven : well i guess i'm glad you felt confident enough to ask for date interested_5000 : fucker wont leave me alone....and wont sit so i can smash him interested_5000 : in a way i am also interested_5000 : and going in i was ready for a "no" mediamaven : see i never do that interested_5000 : never?? interested_5000 : ha mediamaven : even when odds were staked against me interested_5000 : well...i guess i was just being realistic.....guessing she was taken mediamaven : with men mediamaven : no interested_5000 : dead fly walkin mediamaven : good for you interested_5000 : fuck! interested_5000 : two of em!!!!!!!! interested_5000 : shit mediamaven : the only things i have confidence in are my abilites at work interested_5000 : and that is a good thing mediamaven : and my ability to get laid mediamaven : that is about it mediamaven : now dating mediamaven : i suck at it interested_5000 lol interested_5000 : ok mediamaven : relationships mediamaven : maybe not so good mediamaven : i'm good out of the gate interested_5000: yeah..well we all have our faults interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : very good mediamaven : but i can't seem to close the deal mediamaven : so i need to grow up and figure that out mediamaven: but honestly i think it's because i don't want too interested_5000: i agree mediamaven: when i want too i will do it mediamaven: and it will work interested_5000 : yep mediamaven : i think that might be true for you too mediamaven : maybe interested_5000: well.....actually..... interested_5000 : i know what i want interested_5000 just not how to get it interested_5000 : or what i can get mediamaven : what do you want? interested_5000 : so i need to figure that all out mediamaven: if that's not too personal or something mediamaven : cause you know.....i don't know what i want interested_5000: hmmm.......lets see interested_5000: hair cutter gal would fit rahter nicly interested_5000 : kinda younger interested_5000: attractive interested_5000 : comes from out west interested_5000: seems nice interested_5000 : good at cutting hair...lol interested_5000 : this is why i asked about the league thing....maybe im shooting too high mediamaven : okay so what do you want??? Mediamaven : you want someone younger interested_5000 : well...read above mediamaven: you want someone nice looking mediamaven: you want someone who can have a job or some skill you can utilize interested_5000: lol mediamaven : the from bumfuck thing i can't analzye at this point mediamaven : but i'm sure it's important interested_5000 : well....just a diff breed of personality out there.....if you met some of these people you might understand mediamaven : i know these people mediamaven: i dated one interested_5000 : changes as soon as you get west of say elgin interested_5000 : oh... mediamaven: i know what you mean mediamaven: okay you know what mediamaven :i do know some things i want interested_5000 : oh? Mediamaven : you are looking for someone who gonna fit in interested_5000 : ummm....fit in what? Mediamaven : fit into your life plan interested_5000 : ok.....sure mediamaven : you want someone who can ease into what you are doing interested_5000 : or close interested_5000 : nah.....i dont want to change anyone interested_5000 : never works mediamaven : no it never does interested_5000 : k....my head is starting to hurt interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : me too mediamaven: so much for what i want mediamaven : anyways mediamaven : good luck with car interested_5000 : no....you can tell me what i want interested_5000 : oops....you mediamaven : see interested_5000 : no no no mediamaven : that might be your problem interested_5000 : you! mediamaven : lol interested_5000 : geez interested_5000): <~~~~~needs aspirin interested_5000 : and a blowjob interested_5000 : lol mediamaven : here's some advice mediamaven : make sure they like sex mediamaven: that's one thing i would never compromise on again mediamaven : ever mediamaven : okay i gotta go interested_5000 : lol....ok mediamaven : cya interested_5000 : thanks for the talk interested_5000: bye
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